Happy 5th Birthday to my Triplets

It's Birthday time 2 down 1 to go

So far we have had Hannah's Birthday in May she is 2 now. We had a small celebration and a park visit on her actual birthday and a small party at home the Saturday after her birthday. She had her 2 year old check up on her birthday as well. 24 lbs. Healthy girl and developing normal.

Ms. Ava is 7 last week. Her birthday is also the 1st day of summer vacation for us as well. I took her to her favorite restaurant, Olive Garden, on her birthday and the Saturday after her birthday we had her party at the skating ring. She loved it.

Today we went to Legoland.  Had a great time with the family on our annual trip. Definitely better this year than last year.

The boys birthday is just over a month away. Not sure what we will do yet, but definitely think we will do minion theme. Andrew wants a fart gun.

Even though the boys will be 5 when school starts we made the decision to leave them in preschool again for next year. Andrew is still not ready. He is very immature and has a lot of behavior problems still. He was diagnosed with autism a few months ago and receives physical, occupational, and speech therapy outpatient to work on his issues to help prepare him for school when he is 6. He still can not grasp a pencil, color, or wite age appropriately.  This really concerns me and wad my deciding factor on leaving him in the special needs preschool with Jacob another year.

Jacob got a new stander and had his wheelchair growth adjusted recently. He received the same type therapies as Andrew. We will be working more on communication skills with him in the near future than feeding therapy like we have been. We have been doing intensive feeding therapy since August and have seen improvements in decreasing his oral aversion and allowing people to touch his face, but he still doesn't want to put food in his mouth and swallow it. We are not giving up, but moving forward with other skills and evaluation on skills we think he can achieve.

Ava made leaps and bounds at school this year. I home schooled her the 1st 9 weeks. She started public school on October 4th. She left kindergarten behind and the point of home schooling was to to help her catch up but she didn't want to listen or learn from me. So when starting school she was still very behind where they wanted her. She made A's and B's in almost everything all year except reading she made C's Toward the year her writing grades slipped go C's as well. Even though she passed the testing to move onto 2nd grade and technically had the grades  to move forward. The last 9 weeks she stopped trying and her grades on her papers were bad, well most were even with extra help. Her teacher told me she thought she should repeat 1st grade so she could catch up and stop struggling. After a lot of anguish and meetings with teacher, Ava actually decided (I would have made the final say so anyway) she wanted to repeat 1st grade and not move on with her friends. I was really worried she would be upset about being held back, but I think she is afraid to move on and she loves her teacher who she will stay with next year.  Anyways, I think this will be good for her. Technically since she was barely 5 last year she didn't have to go to kindergarten last year and if anything she probably should have been repeating kindergarten this year....but I told her this year was "practice" 1st grade and next year us for real and she has to take it very seriously and that there is no more practice grades...she seemed to accept that.

Happy Easter

Easter bunny hid eggs outside after filling the baskets. Avant found $5!!! In 1 of her eggs.

Ava lost her 2nd baby tooth this month

On 4/17 once again while at school she wiggled out her 2nd tooth. They gave her another little case for her tooth. Unfortunately while at lunch she lost the tooth from its case and never found it. The tooth fairy still came and let her know on another tiny note that they were able to go to the cafeteria and find the tooth and brought her another $1. This time the note and $1 had glitter all over it. She was very excited.

 1st tooth lost 4/4/14

2nd tooth lost 4/17/14

Ava lost her 1st tooth today at school!

I noticed the other day that her adult teeth were growing in and that 1 of her baby teeth was about to fall out, but she wouldn't let me touch it.

Today she came home from school with a little container shaped like a tooth because she lost her 1st little tooth in class. ♡

My baby is not allowed to be this big yet!

Cross posted from Jacob's blog Casts and Phenol and more updates State Fair Pictures

It has been over a year and a 1/2 since Jacob received his last round of botox and phenol injections together. The hospital we had it done at could not longer have the phenol compounded. In December his physcial medicine doctor moved out of state so we had to find a new doctor. He received his last botox by his old doctor on September 26. The botox alone never seems to do the job anymore. A new hospital opened up in Orlando, Nemours, so we decided to try them out. We started seeing the physical medicine doctor there in October. Our old doctor wasn't to into bracing and understood Jacob's intolerance to oral medications for his plasticity. Everything you give him puts him to sleep for 18 plus hours a day. Without the help of phenol his legs have become more spastic, stronger, and started to scissor again no matter what I was doing to prevent it. His legs are so strong he fought night splints to the point of either getting them off or making them cut into his legs. We went though several different types from off the shelf to custom made.

The new doctor wasn't a big fan of jumping into phenol and botox together. I was elated to find out they were capable of doing it at this new hospital though. She wanted us to try dantrolene orally 1st. She thought it may cause less side effects than baclofen. Currently he was only taking 10mg at night time because any daytime dose would knock him out for the day. I wasn't very happy about trying this new medication because it came with a risk of liver issues. He even had to have blood work prior to starting it. Then there was a fight with insurance to pay for it and a pharmacy to compound it. After a few months of trying to get this medication 1. It didn't near nothing for his tone. 2. He slept worse than he did on the baclofen. He barely work up for 2 days and we had not even tit-rated to the full dose yet. I email them back asking to please go forward with what I know works. We are going into the time frame that we can do injections since you have to wait 4-5 months from the last dose to do it again. About 3 weeks ago we took him into the hospital and the doctor did phenol in 2 different areas of his legs and botox to his arms and hands. I was very surprised at how well the botox worked in his hands. I have never seen it work that well without phenol. I didn't want phenol in his arms this time because it makes them to weak. On his legs come apart nicely, but unfortunately his hamstings are still tight even after the phenol. In the past he had botox in his legs as well and maybe that is why we did not have the same good results this time. He had the start of a contracture behind his knees because he likes to keep them bent even when sleeping which like I mentioned before he has never tolerated night splinting. So she wanted to do casts on his legs for 2 weeks. I was worried about this because I know how very sensitive his skin is and how easily even his braces that come on and off and cause him issues. I was reassured by the Ortho techs that they do this all the time and they take them off every week, how well they are padded etc. I let them put the casts on thinking it is in his best interest. I don't want the contracture behind his knee to get worse. 

So the casts are on both legs from toes all the way up to the top of his thighs. I'm freaking out at the loss of control to take these things off when he is crying. I really haven't allowed myself to think this though I don't think. I take him home and withing 2 hours of the casts being on he is fighting them mad as hell. I literally have to carry him around and hold him the rest of the day that day (Friday) for him not to cry. He slept on top of me all night. If he felt me move him and take my hands off of him he started crying. I did start giving him a morning dose of baclofen (it is prescribed at night and PRN every 6 hours as needed) to help him not fight the casts. I had also given him extra valium (also prescribed the same as baclofen) I had even given him a few doses of the course of 3 days of ibuprofen thinking it would help with anything muscle pain (Ill get to why that is important in a minute) Sunday I really started freaking out about not being able to see his heals. He has never ever had a pressure sore, but I know in his DAFOS (which of course are only worn with socks) the way he braces and pushes down he can make his heals red so I am worried about what these are doing because I know he is doing everything he can to try and push out of these. I considered going to the ER and having them cut cast windows into the heal part of the casts to ease my concerns and talked myself out of it. Thinking I know how much padding was between the hard part of the casts and his foot plus I didn't know if they would even do it just because I wanted them to. At this point by Saturday afternoon and Sunday he was back to his happy giggly self only crying when he needed his legs repositioned. He went to school and therapy on Monday and seemed fine, but Monday night he cried a lot but stopped everytime I changed his postion. I sent him to school on Tuesday. A this point I had already made arrangements to have the casts cut off on Thursday and made the decision that I was not putting him or myself though a 2nd week of this. I can't stand not being able to see his skin. The school calls me a few hours into the day saying he as crying after his feed and they vented his tube and got a copious amount of rust colored fluid back that appeared to be blood. I called his GI, Nemours (he had started a new drooling patch and I wanted to make sure that it was not a side effect I didn't know of) and his pediatrician waiting on someone to call me back before I took him to the ER. I pick him up and arrange baby sitting for the rest of the kids and I am about to head toward Arnold Palmer in Orlando when Nemours finally calls back. She suggests that I go ahead and bring him in to have the casts cut off and they can test the fluid for blood and call our GI and see what they say. I told her I was upset because I thought he was crying over casts and never thought to vent his tube and that  I just wanted them off. So I head to Nemours. They are waiting on me to get there (I really do love the nurse there!!) They cut the casts off and the 1st thing Jacob dose is bend his knees up to his chest and laugh like he just won. As we start dealing with the GI issues and figuring out why he would have blood in his stomach the nurse asked if I had given any ibuprofen. As a nurse myself I should have realized, but it didn't cross my mind, I had given him a total of 3 doses of Motrin since Friday the last being Monday morning and this was Tuesday afternoon though. After discussing the GI I was told to just watch him and not given anymore Motrin. He has been fine since on the GI issues...back to the legs. 

The more we sat there waiting on GI stuff the more color Jacob showed in his legs. I was watching his left foot mainly because I noticed his heal looked like it had a white area at the back of it.It seemed to blanch okay though. Then shortly before leaving I looked at his right heal again and OMG how did I miss this he had a nickle size purple area to the back of his heal from the cast. (the right leg is the stronger of the legs and the 1 we have to most issues with) I am so upset at this point. I feel so guilty for letting them put the casts on and not listening to my own intuition on Sunday about having the heals of the cast cut out. I can tell they feel bad as well. We make a plan on how to deal with it. I try not to cry. As of right now the heals are not looking as bad as they did on Tuesday. Today is Friday. They were afraid the right one may open and so far it has not. They look like blisters but have not raised. We are keeping him in keep immobilizers as much as possible and keep is heals elevated off all surfaces. She said no weight bearing either. We go back on Tuesday March 4th for her to reevaluate his heals. He is defiantly happier without the casts and is tolerating the knee immobilizers fine.

The day we got the casts

This is how he slept the 1st night. I was not allowed to put him down.

Jacob's victory of getting the casts off.

I ordered Jacob a bigger special tomato chair as well. We went up from as size 2 to a size 3. The size 2 still fits, but is much easier to get him in and out of the 3. I also wanted to 2 anyway so  I can use 1 in his new stroller Advance Mobility Liberty. It fits well. It is nice having 2 so I don't have to constantly move them back and forth to. I have 1 that I can keep in the car for when we go out places. I really love the speical tomato. The straps they built into it are very handy. We use it in the back of shopping carts, the front of some shopping carts like the 1 that are cars, it fits inside like an insert in the special needs swings at the park so he does not bang around in it. On a few ghetto occasions even though this is probably not 1005 safe we have even rigged the seat to a standard swing at the park so he can swing to when they have no special swings. It fits in his stroller for better support and it comes out so he can sit in chairs at restaurants or friends houses. They way he arches and thrusts. It is important that he has something that can stop him from bucking out of things. Still 1 of my very favorite things I have every bought him and I am very happy to have 2 now.

The NEW chair!

Mine and Jack's attempt at building a platform swing. We built that a few months ago.

Another thing we have been looking for is a new carseat for him that didn't push his legs so far forward that he was able to kick the back of our seats. His previous 2 carseats Britax Frontier and Graco My Ride 65 (Loved the My Ride) were good but the recline on them made it to where his feet were at the perfect height to get stuck in the pocket on the back of the seat of our van. Without making the driver uncomfortable and sitting 2 close to the wheel there was no way to fix this. While at Nemours a few months ago back when we 1st started going we were having a wheel chair adjustment and he was being fitted for a new Rifton stander that we are trying to get we discussed carseat options. They told me about a program called Safe Kids where I can get a discount carseat that may work for him. ($100) It is not a special needs carseat but I figured wer would try it. It is a Diono Radian R120. I had another special needs mom recommend it to me as well and for $100 bucks I decided why not. They normally retail $250. I had actually owned 2 of these type carseats before when they were called Sunshine Kids but ended up getting rid of them (silly me) They are good for 10 years!

From the website:

With all the key safety features that parents love in the Radian® family, the R120 model is a step up from the R100 and provides additional infant body support cushions to help keep babies and infants positioned correctly.

Key Features

• Full steel frame and aluminum reinforced sides for unmatched safety
• Comfortably seats rear-facing children from 5-45 lbs, forward-facing children from 20-80 lbs in a 5-point harness, then converts to a booster for children up to 120 lbs.
• Unique SuperLATCH system that makes installation easy
• It also fits 3 across in a mid-size vehicle, folds flat for travel and is FAA certified
• Booster mode from 50 -120 lbs (40 to 57 inches)
• NCAP crash tested, the industry benchmark for verifying child seat performance in severe accident condition

 His carseat also the day he got the casts. We do have to roll a towel up and put it on the left side to stop him from leaning.

This was his yesterday at Nemours again having his hand spints readjusted.

Took the kids to the state fair a few weeks ago. I was surprised at how much Andrew wanted to go on the rides. I expected him to freak out on me, We went with some friends and had a really good (expensive) day. 

I love this picture. Jacob was very engaged while around the animals. He really enjoyed it.

 Daddy let the cow eat her hand.

 This was Jacob's favorite animal he seen. Then the sheep he was staring down.

 Ava milking the cow.

 We had to force Hannah off this ride.

 Andrew enjoyed this, but didn't milk the cow.

 We updated the kids equipment in the backyard and put together a new swing set this past weekend and the weekend before that we put together the new trampoline. Now they have a trampoline inside and outside again.